Description:
Asperger’s Syndrome, high-functioning autism, is a
disability that affects 1 in 500 people. There is no single obvious identifying
characteristic. Children with AS are often made fun of and generally shunned because
they don’t fit in with their peers. In this book, an adult who has Asperger’s
Syndrome describes his experiences as he grew up, and his mother complements his
writing with an account of the family’s efforts to understand him.
In the words of the man with Asperger’s Syndrome:
“Since I was born, I knew I was different, that I
didn’t fit in anywhere. Such has been, and shall be, the case until I die.
Have you ever seen a person who has no sense of
rhythm try to dance? Or heard a person with no musicality try to play? That, in a
phrase, sums up Asperger’s—while everyone else is trying to dance the waltz, I’m
dancing the two-step, and damned if I know why, but I’m always out of step.
I have no real clue as to how to behave in society,
how to attract and keep friends, how to work without supervision. Thoughts and
feelings go flying through me like a leaf down a river’s rapids—there, up to the
surface, and gone. Try as I might, I cannot do “the social dance,” and I am stuck
out of step, and out of place, wherever I go.
Perhaps, then, it is time I do my own dance. Though
I would wish otherwise, I will always be alone. I have grown used to this fact."
—John Brine, November 10, 1998
The family’s experiences—mistakes, successes,
heartaches, and joys—are told in the hope they will help parents who are baffled by
similar behaviors in their own children. Classroom teachers, family doctors,
psychologists and therapists may find this account assists them in their quest to
better understand these “eccentric” children.
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the sequel: It's the Only Dance I Know